Your inability to find love is not your fault. Love is timing. It's unforceable. Keeping your heart open can help you locate that special someone.
Refusing to date hurts your love prospects. If you want to connect with someone, you have to open up. Without proof, you can't exclude others.
Every couple fights. If you're compatible, you'll overcome it. If you go away, you'll never know the difference.
You're placing too much pressure on yourself and this other person if you think you need to settle down by a specific age to be happy or successful.
If you keep returning to a bad relationship, you'll miss out on the potential to meet someone more suited to you.
When you don't think you deserve anything, it's hard to meet new people and ask for what you want. Self-love and respect are essential.