It's taken you a very long time to get to this point, and that means you haven't always been someone who asks for what they need.
During the transit of Moon trine Neptune, you will consider the idea that, perhaps, this isn't working for you.
Today, you will surprise your romantic partner with a side of you that may seem 'selfish' at first, but will register to both of you as 'self-respecting.'
You will also come to realize it's quite simple to get what you want as what you are asking for isn't the world; it's merely the respect of being listened to and taken seriously.